Regarding the credit card : we have had one bank account for us as a couple. I have opened my own bank account now and I will tell the bank that I will no longer use the old one. Certainly our debts belong to me too, but I am no longer responsible for her new debts in the future. She is not good with money and the financial mess is already on its way.
Does that make sense?
Sandi I still struggle with the concept of though love. How would it help me if I would know more about the A?


Me 46
W 45
S16 D14 S10
M 20 yrs in June T22
12/14 sleeping in different rooms
01/07/15 she said she wants a separation
02/26/15 I moved out