Thanks for posting guys. I read the thread on letting them go today. It really got me wondering why I am waiting to hear back from H. I'm wondering whether I'm now ready to post this:
H, I'm not going to wait for you to make up your mind and reply to me. If you can't decide whether you want to be with me, or to date, or otherwise, I'll decide for us. You can be with whomever you like because I won't be an option any longer. I realise it's time for me to let you go and move on now.
I'm sad things didn't work out for us. But you know, there are many good things in my life and it's getting better all the time. I think we now just need to resolve things as constructively as we can. I'll contact L and arrange to file for divorce on the grounds of unreasonable behaviour, citing your affair as the reason.
I love you and I wish you a good life. I hope things work out for you.
Toots.
I guess I'm just posting it to see how I feel about it. Does it seem like a bit of a u-turn from my response 10 days ago when H mentioned D? Am I ready? Will I truly know that I'm ready?
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
