Joe, I don't want to interfere with the work Vanilla is doing with you. I was hoping she would get back and respond to your list of positive actions, and she will. I guess I get nervous you will do something without waiting. The only thing I want to point out was the one about her work/job.
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When W puts in long hours I can say "You are such a hard worker and do a great job at helping provide for the family."
Perhaps you were not referring to the present job she is doing that is your point of contention, IDK. Maybe you are just practicing for the future?
I'm sure V will help you greatly in these areas. She is gifted with positive thinking & talking.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
