"Well it seems that a big issue for her was control. So I've been trying to let go of that.
I'm not interfering with anything she's doing during our S.
When we get back together I would like for her to be able to treat herself with the money she's earned."
This and all of the other "changes" that you wrote about are all dependent on her. Well she's not there any more. What can you do NOW to work on those issues and put them into practice into your daily life?
How often do you communicate with her?
I forgot if I missed it, but do you have children together?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
