I made a couple of posts months ago when my situation first started but I did not get much feedback, so I left the board. I have since comeback but I let things get to out of control before coming back. I am beaten and battered but I am not giving up on my marriage. When I said until death do us part. I meant every word of that.
I do think you Joe can still save your marriage if you listen to the advice given. Once you are living under separate roofs everything changes really quickly.
Me: 36 W: 36 D: 14 T: 18 (05/1997) M: 16 (05/1999) BD: 7/23/15 Separation 01/2015 D mentioned and started 02/2015 D filed 3/2015 OM confirmed 3/30/15