I'm so sorry errod. I too was pressuring her to work on our marriage up until about 3 months ago. We have still had our arguments. But they have changed alot from how they were. I basically leave her alone right now. I don't bring up any R stuff. We only talk about the kids. I do my thing and she does hers. I am REALLY glad I am learning these things about myself. I am so thankful for this forum and the people calling me out on myself. No matter what happens in the future, I want to be a better man, husband and father. All of this is helping me. And especially God, Sandi and V!
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"