I was referring to this part of your W's note to your mother:
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She explained how the reason she never contacted her after the split was because I had asked her not to. She went on to say that she's sorry for hurting me like she did but that it all got to be too much. She went on to say that she will always love me...with always underlined several times. Then she told my Mom that I'd probably be mad that she sent the letter.
Made herself look better than the truth, and getting her digs in you as the bad guy.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
