Cherry, sorry your having a rough day. I wish I could tell you if leaving or staying is the best choice, but I don't know. Hopefully a vet can give you better advice on what you should do.

That being said, what I do know is that's it's generally a bad idea to act only on your feelings/emotions. I wouldn't rush to leave just because of that reason right now.

As for being his friend, you don't have to accept that. He can't just be your friend if he wants to fire you as a wife. He's just trying to justify his action in his mind.

I know your hurting today, focus on you and the baby. He has hurt you and will continue to. He may or may not see that right now. You have to work on detaching and not thinking about him all day. I know,so much easier said than done. Take baby steps. When you think about what he's doing push the thought away and go find something to take your mind off it.

Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be