I just told W that I will tell our bank that I have moved out. I have opened up a new account and will give the old credit cards back. She was surprised but said "ok". She is still very exhausted and asked me again to do some work in the house. Small stuff like fixing the cupboard.
S10 nearly cried when I left and asked me why I never sleep at home. This is heartbreaking.... But what should I do.
The next point is: a friend who knows about the separation wants to meet and have some coffee. She is a single parenting mom and is actively looking for a new relationship. How should I deal with it?


Me 46
W 45
S16 D14 S10
M 20 yrs in June T22
12/14 sleeping in different rooms
01/07/15 she said she wants a separation
02/26/15 I moved out