I am getting really confused now. After W texts me last night apologizing and then talking for about an hour, she stops by this morning to drop off D14's phone to me. D14 got in trouble so we are controlling her phone. The part that was strange is normally she would send D up to drop off what ever and she would wait in the car. This morning she did the opposite. W came up and D14 waited in the car.

She then said D14 did not bring any of her clothes over so she will see me tonight when I come over to pick them up.

The other thing I am confused about is if she is over me and said she wants me to move on and be happy. Why was she so upset last night when she thought that someone was after me. Her exact quote yesterday was "she knew we where done when she could look at me and see me with someone else and not be upset"

So the two thoughts running through my head are that she is afraid of what I will go after with my attorney and she is trying to play nice knowing I still love her and can be manipulated. Or things are hitting a point where she is a little nervous about her future with out me.

One other thing she said last night was I miss being married and the life we had, but I don't love you so it is not fair to stay together.

Last edited by errod; 03/24/15 01:20 PM.

Me: 36
W: 36
D: 14
T: 18 (05/1997)
M: 16 (05/1999)
BD: 7/23/15
Separation 01/2015
D mentioned and started 02/2015
D filed 3/2015
OM confirmed 3/30/15