Yeah there is a wealth of information out there. A lot of it does come across as conflicting. For me personally i didnt want to go down the nuclear bomb exposure route. I didnt want to expose my daughter to that. Some agree, others dont. I think the same principles apply whether you want to reconcile or not. You need to get on with your own life. Again you cannot control that other person you can only control yourself.
DB or any of these sites is more about saving yourself and a byproduct is you might save your marriage. If not then you will be a better person in the long run.
How long have you known?
The "let them go" article is probably one of the best ive read. There is a massive thread all about it on another site but i'll get told off for linking it
Me:40 W:35 D:8 T:13 M:10 WAW: 7/14 PA Discovered: 1/15 at least 6 months Moved out and moved on
