U-turn, I feel like i'm the same situation.
I'm sorry it turned out this way.

You mentioned that, if you're going to leave the house,
everyone will think you have abandonded the kids.

Can you not tell your kids and everyone else the truth
about the A so they will understand why you will leave?


M 30
W 31
S8 and S6
M 7 T 13
D-Day Mid December 2014
EA/PA confirmed end of December 2014

Help needed:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2550514#Post2550514