Then I thought, Hmm - this is my problem. I have an 'expectation' that he will get back to me, because he said he needed a week to think and it's been over a week. So, I'm just trying to let go of the 'expectation' that he will respond - just need to keep moving forwards really....
Sums it up quite nicely I think. I'm sure having some more interesting work will really help you with moving forwards. I think if you looked around (and maybe you already do) you would have that feeling that says
'you know what, my life is pretty good and getting even better'
Your H will do what your H will do. at some point he may come back to you with some kind of answer or he may not until then keep being awesome and try not to give him any headspace.
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
