Congrats on the new job and saving the day for your dad. You're not only the hero of the day here, you are a great example and hero for many, especially females in here. Stay strong. Not sure how to evaluate you're H behaviour. Just keep the expectations low. I don't know exactly the situation but sometimes people need a push in the right moment too. Handle with care tho!!
Me 32 (German) Wife 28 T 3yrs M 2yrs Moved to US for W No kids BD 6/2014 In house separation Confirmed EA 1/2015 (ongoing since BD) OM not ready Real D talk started 1/27/15