Tonight, after some soul searching, I decided to take another big step. I deleted my WW off of FB and changed my privacy settings. No longer can she see what I am up to and throw it in my face. It's a good feeling.
Congratulations! I'm six months into my sitch and I haven't done this yet. I don't post much though, so that's not a place to know what I'm up to. But my problem is knowing what she's up to, which can throw me off for a few hours or days. So I've hidden her posts from my feed and haven't been to her profile in 1.5 month. Yesterday, I unsubscribed from her Instagram account. It took me this long because it is protected meaning that I can't go back. On Facebook, I'd like to be the one to delete her, before she deletes me, but I haven't found the courage yet.
This is to say that you also took a step to detach from your WW, not just to hide from her. It might be even more important.
Thank you Mozza. I just felt it was the right thing to do now. She rarely posts anything, but she looks at my stuff all the time and will casually slip it into a conversation. I think by deleting her, it will only cause her to speculate more. Which is fine. I really love her, I would love to get things fixed, but she isn't in the right frame of mind to even entertain that idea, so this was the next logical step. Detach, detach, detach.
Me: 38 W: 32 S10 D6 T: 10 (02/2004) M: 7 (12/2007) Separation 02/2015 OM confirmed 01/2015, D mentioned 12/2014 D finalized 9/2016
