Matt, I love your last post. Could not have said it better myself. I wanted that for me and my H, too. Growing old together. Taking care of each other. That IS what it's all about. And even though I have been through this mess, I still believe in it.

I'm sorry you're dealing with all this stuff at once. But, I know you can handle it. Keep writing...


Me 53, XH 57
M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids
BD June '13
H moved out July '13
Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14
H filed for D Nov. '14
D March '15