I would like you to take each item and see what the reverse might be. So instead of putting it in the past tense, I did, I needed to. Try putting it as an action for now today and add something positive to it for example:
I can share the tools, tv remote, truck with W willingly.
If W looks beautiful I will say you look beautiful today, your dress suits you.
Etc.
After this you and I can examine your list and see which items fit Sandi 37 guidelines and which may need to (temporarily) put into storage. It would be good though to identify some things you can do easily as 180s.
I do this exercise too.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW