Thank you guys. Sad times for sure. I am glad I handled my WAW correctly too.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14
Not a huge update but apparently my WAW went ahead and sent a sympathy card to my Dad and Step-Mom anyway. So I can only assume she sent one to my Mom too but I haven't checked her mail yet. Hope everyone is well.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14
Hey Guys, Just stopping by to let you know there's been no updates at all aside from a quick follow-up to my last post... My WAW sent my Mom a hand written letter back when my brother died. In it she expressed her condolences and told my Mom that she needed to write a few words instead of just a card. She explained how the reason she never contacted her after the split was because I had asked her not to. She went on to say that she's sorry for hurting me like she did but that it all got to be too much. She went on to say that she will always love me...with always underlined several times. Then she told my Mom that I'd probably be mad that she sent the letter.
This was about 3 weeks ago. Other than that there's nothing to report since. I hope everyone is well.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14
Hey Guys, Just stopping by to let you know there's been no updates at all aside from a quick follow-up to my last post... My WAW sent my Mom a hand written letter back when my brother died. In it she expressed her condolences and told my Mom that she needed to write a few words instead of just a card. She explained how the reason she never contacted her after the split was because I had asked her not to. She went on to say that she's sorry for hurting me like she did but that it all got to be too much. She went on to say that she will always love me...with always underlined several times. Then she told my Mom that I'd probably be mad that she sent the letter.
This was about 3 weeks ago. Other than that there's nothing to report since. Neither of us had made any contact at all with WAW. I hope everyone is well.
Last edited by ItHurts; 03/24/1501:03 AM.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14
Hi Sandi, A kick in the n-uts? LOL! Why do you say that? LOL! Yes I try to keep you guys updated here because I remember there were a lot of sitches I was following that suddenly stopped with no current updates so I was left wondering whatever happened with those people so I try to let you all know what's going on with me.
As you can see not much has been happening...maintaining no contact for months now...unbelievably we are fast approaching a year now since my bomb drop...time sure flies but it puts the facts in perspective because it looks like WAW and I are truly done for good now after all this time. Still, I will be sure to keep you all updated.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14
I was referring to this part of your W's note to your mother:
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She explained how the reason she never contacted her after the split was because I had asked her not to. She went on to say that she's sorry for hurting me like she did but that it all got to be too much. She went on to say that she will always love me...with always underlined several times. Then she told my Mom that I'd probably be mad that she sent the letter.
Made herself look better than the truth, and getting her digs in you as the bad guy.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
Oh I see...yeah I guess. I have no idea what WAW is up to these days. I never allowed myself to look at her FB page so I never did. So I am 100% totally clueless as to what's going on with her. I figure I don't need to know, it doesn't matter. So I have no idea where she's coming from but the most important thing is that none of us ever contacted her back. She did include a return address on the back of the envelope...but we have no intention of making any kind of contact with her.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14
Hi Guys...just an update. I was shocked to receive a text a few moments ago from WAW. All it said was "Thinking of you. Happy Easter." I haven't replied. Very surprised by this.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14
