The MC I'm currently seeing upon our first meeting I handed him a copy of DB and made it clear that I was standing for my marriage and if he could't agree with either that I would continue looking. All with the express purpose of when my wife was ready that it would turn into "joint" counseling. But only after she was ready willing and able.
Me 47 - W 35 M 9 - T 10 2 Daughters - 7 & 9 Discovery of EA- 8/4/14 S - 8/5/15 D mentioned - 9/11/14 R & Piecing - 3/17/15 Regard one another as more important than yourselves. - Philippians 2:3