I would too. I waited. I didn't want to do more damage to my M. I didn't want this to be the reason for the end (I made a stupid promise to my W early in my situation - which I honored thinking I was taking the high road - more manipulation). So I think I need to release this to her. But don't know how.
Me-45 W-44 S21, S18, D15 T-27, M-21 BD Jan 2014 PA revealed March 2014 In-house separation - April 2015 I filed - Aug 2015 She moved out Oct 2015