Question about OMW: this has been a sore spot for me for the entire time. What is my responsibility? would you want to know if you didn't? would you want to find out from me? Would telling her make me look like a punitive fool? How do I even begin to tell someone about this? (I know their address, home phone number). Show up with proof, ask her if she wants to know? Will OMW think I am to blame for the demise of her family? What if she flips out (which is probably likely)? or worse, what if she doesn't think it is a big deal (I can't imagine that this would happen)?
u-t, I can already tell by the way you have framed all of these questions (and even answered some of them) that your mind is already made up here, so I won't try to convince you otherwise. If it were me, I would definitely want to know.
