Originally Posted By: Starsky309
separate the addict from the source of their addiction.

Yes. Good line. I have come across the replacement of addiction with another in my head for awhile by now.

I will up the strength of it tonight. Continue to mention that it is going to take a long time to gain trust in her again, and the more she does to alleviate that mental strain now, the better. She knows that the most important thing for me to have right now is trust. Without my trust, her entire family will have no trust, regardless of whether I say anything to them or not.

Jefe, I have not. I have met her only once. I do know who she is and can get into contact with her if I need to. I should have gotten her number when I met her, did not think about it. Good suggestion though. Thank you.


M: 29 W: 27
M: 4 yrs
T: 9 yrs
Children: S3
EA: Discovered 11/2014
PA: Admitted to starting 12/2014