For the Newcomer LBH who has a wayward wife Part 2

[Joe46]

Sandi, I have brought this addiction up to my wife on several occasions in the past before I came here and learned that I was wasting my time trying to talk to her. I even sat down very nice and told her that I can understand how taking those calls can feed her ego and make her feel good. Of course, I got the " that has nothing to do with it and I don't feel anything from those calls". I have heard several different reasons for her to justify why she still took the calls. The story changed each time. We also live in a small town where everyone knows everybody else. I hear the comments, your W never goes out anymore. Never comes to the games. We hardly see her anymore. She hears it also. Her justification for what she is doing is "she is providing for her children". Sorry I pay all the bills. She was buying groceries. Even that has slowed down now. She buys just enough for a few meals. She pays for the phone/internet and her cell phone.