hold on! - 8

[u-turn]

As far as a lawyer goes - I thought this was something that I could handle on my own too. You know, I have done so well with everything else so far.

I am changing that naive mentality too.

But part of me is in the "I don't care. take everything from me and let me move on" state of mind.

Question about OMW: this has been a sore spot for me for the entire time. What is my responsibility? would you want to know if you didn't? would you want to find out from me? Would telling her make me look like a punitive fool? How do I even begin to tell someone about this? (I know their address, home phone number). Show up with proof, ask her if she wants to know? Will OMW think I am to blame for the demise of her family? What if she flips out (which is probably likely)? or worse, what if she doesn't think it is a big deal (I can't imagine that this would happen)?

I am bothered by telling her and not her. I have nothing to gain by telling her.

My W knows this all bothers me too.