Originally Posted By: Jefe


Been here.

Romance her. Lots of non-sexual interaction. Eye contact, gentle touches. Affirming texts through-out the day. She doesn't like surprises, then don't surprise her. Work on making sure she knows she's the only woman in the world for you. The things we husbands all need to work on. Basically, continue working on being a husband only a fool would leave. The rest will straighten itself out providing she has an awesome sponsor and she sticks to her part of the plan.


This sounds good. Thank you

I have been doing those things when I can, especially after our last talk. Not the text thing too much. I can do more though.

Her sponsor does seem good. Agrees with W's "plan" (so W says) and, in light of her recent mindset, has apparently started her back at the first step of the 12. Hopefully this is truthful and sticks with it.


M: 29 W: 27
M: 4 yrs
T: 9 yrs
Children: S3
EA: Discovered 11/2014
PA: Admitted to starting 12/2014