Great advice Jefe.

I have read that sort of thing before but with going through so much information in such a short time it is something that has slipped through the net. In my next interactions with her I will bear in mind that she is not well at the moment. I'm sure that will it a lot easier to see things from a new perspective and not get so emotionally involved in every word and meeting.

EDIT: As a means of motivation and inspiration, I have been looking through the forum and coming across threads where people seem to be making some progress. I then look back at their first posts where they state how hopeless things are and what a mess they are, and it fills me with hope that no matter how bad things appear at the moment there is always the *chance* that if things go well one day I might get where I want to be.

Last edited by alpha99; 03/23/15 05:58 PM.

BD - 30TH JAN 2015
S - 30TH JAN 2015
PA CONFIRMED - 16TH FEB 2015 (SINCE AT LEAST OCT 2014)
CONTINUAL TALK OF D
ME: 31
W: 28
T: 10yrs
M: 4.5yrs
D:5, S:6