I probably should not chime in here but I will anyway. When XW comes to my house she gets a minute or 2 and then I go to the door and open it and hold it open for her. If that does not do the trick I will say (have said) "OK, its time for you to go". Nothing harsh or hostile, but I get my point across clearly.
You don't have to let him hang around. You don't have to look at him. Why torture yourself? Eventually it will get better. Doesn't have to be today, or even next week. Take your time working through it.
M42 W40 T17 M15 S13 S11 BD 7-14 A discovered 7-14 WAW moved out 10-3-14 D final 2-23-15
