Ok I just want to make something clear........
I am TOTALLY 110% with your wife on not letting you be alone with the kids. That is why the parenting plan I suggested had all visits in the presence of family/school......

I don't see why your wife shouldn't let the kids be with you AND your parents/sister (ie not just your wife being the parenting time supervisor) BUT there is no way I would say she is just playing a power card WITHOUT reason......

You have to get your reactions under control! And the first part of that is realizing your mistakes and owning them.

Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction