hold on! - 8

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She bomb-dropped you 14 months ago, and you found out she was having an affair 12 months ago . . . and you haven't done any of these things yet??? confused

I have not done the right things. I have trusted that this would end, that she would end it, that she would see that this is wrong.

I was the one that was wrong. stupid and naive. Now I HAVE to act instead of hoping.
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That poor woman. Why should she be the only one of the four affected, to NOT know the truth about what's going on, so she can make her own decisions accordingly?

I feel so guilty about this - this is all on me. But I will feel guilty when I tell her - She may be blindly happy without this information. Damned either way.