Thanks for responding. Yesterday, I found both of Sandi's threads and I do already have her "37 Rules" and try to follow them. Obviously, I need to do much better sticking to them. I didn't have time to read all of her threads, but I will soon!
I don't post much, if at all, but I read many other threads. I feel, at this point, I am so confused I don't want to give someone the wrong advice. I love helping others. But, since I'm not doing so well at this, I'm usually not sure what to advise. I guess I can just offer words of encouragement. That never hurts.
Thanks again.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15