S18 & D14 will cycle up and down they are also going thru phases with your H and their own (puberty and growing up).
You can gently help them, but they will get thru it with your support. BUT keep in mind this is nothing you can "fix" the R or not they they end up with their dad will be between them.
I know its hurts you to see them hurting..but don't let it consume you. Pray thru it. Just continue to be the ROCK for them and they will survive, they will get thru it.
I pray soon your XH at least relaize that he needs to be able to be a parent to ALLLLLL his kids, and if not ,,,then its his lost.
You mention a trip with your kids,,,sounds WONDERFUL, and it will be sooooo much better then last year!!!
My s14 and I took a trip without H right around BD and it was the BEST thing ever for me!
Last edited by 2BHappy; 03/23/1503:00 PM.
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW
