Gogo - You are definitely right. From what I can tell our stories are similar. I will check in on your situation soon, and come up to speed. Sandi's LBH thread has been really helpful, and is a good way to keep things in perspective. I'm looking for those smooth waters as well.

Lost - THANK YOU! I do know you are with me! I love your advice, don't second guess that its not valuable, another opinion/understanding is always valuable!

Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2
M - 8/2008
W is not happy - 1/2014
W wants D - 9/2014
W moved out - 11/2014
D filed - 1/23/2015
D'ed - 2/25/2015
Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015