Sounding good Edz....I would still keep going with the GAL too, and sign up for that yoga class!
Mrs Fixit was dying to get out of her box when I was reading about your W and her mum. Mrs F says that david servan-schreiber's STABEN technique may be a useful reference point. He developed this technique for dealing with challenging people, and saying what you want without alienating them...
Okay, back in your box Mrs F!
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus