Glad your making progress on sorting stuff out and getting the house suitable for visitors is always a good plan. I need to follow that example especially as I think my stuff is far more straightforward.
So BRD not that great then? If your seeing issues already then thats not the best sign, but try not to project you H's flaws. Doubt that's what your doing but still...
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress