Im sort of done with posting for now at least. I felt it was stopping me from moving on because I would be constantly going over the situation and reading posts on here. My situation now is better. I rarely see my wife and we communicate very little, only for D8. For me this is much easier. As for any chance of R, im not interested. Too much has happened for me and probably the same for my wife. I do not want to go back. I did the "pick me dance" for far to long and shredded the last of my self confidence and respect. I am better than that. I am not living in limbo or fear any more. I am no longer plan B as I removed that option. My wife made her choice and I have made mine. I have come to realise I will be absolutely fine without her as she will without me. There will no doubt be tough times ahead but ahead is where I will get to.
Glad to read your sitch is a lot better.
Me:40 W:35 D:8 T:13 M:10 WAW: 7/14 PA Discovered: 1/15 at least 6 months Moved out and moved on
