Thanks complex, I've been keeping up with your sitch and I feel like we are going through the same thing. except W and I are not living together. And she is not talking about D anymore, since me dropping the NC on OM. On Friday she came by while I was getting ready to hit the gym, I had some good rock music pumping to get me in the mood. She seemed sad. She sat on the couch and snuggled with the dogs we didn't talk too much but I saw her take off her glasses and wipe tears from her eyes. I didn't say anything. I did however mention that we needed to meet this coming week to decide how to split everything when I move to my next assignment. I kept myself upbeat and smiling the whole time. And I said see you later, and left for the gym.
So we shall see how this is going to go. Strange enough she is not living with OM from what I have heard. I really don't care but it's weird she left me, for him too not even move in together. Is this normal? I figure it is to try and keep up the pretense of a fling, to keep a spark I'm not too sure, I really don't put too much thought into it either just thought I would ask.