Alpha you said you wanted to "show off" the work you have done on yourself.
I don't know exactly how you meant it but be cautious with it.
I made this mistake before and didn't see any benefit from it. The best you can do is to stay humble about everything. People and W notice anyway what you are doing and that you present yourself differently and stronger. And when you don't say much at all, you being humble makes you look even better. Be as natural as you can and a humble, awesome man and father!
Just trying to feed your thoughts smile

Last edited by Complex; 03/23/15 04:37 AM.

Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15