IMO the dating will become a tough thing for me when I'm in your stage, to make a decision if I go that path or not, especially if LS takes place. I already miss the feeling of being appreciated and loved big time.
Flirting makes you feel better for sure but it's a personal thing if you still want to "wait" this out and value your vows. But don't forget about yourself, you also deserve to move on with your life. Of course you have to be honest not only to the people you are with, but with yourself.
I think it's a highly personal question that can't be answered by anyone else but yourself if you are ready for dating or not.


Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15