I meant that I see wet constantly waiting. It will be until this happens, heck maybe even until s13 is s18. Who cares if she is having a bad day, do what needs to be done and then how you feel based on how she is now and not how she was or hopes she will be.
Sometimes I think those of us that have gone through this just want to help those in it, get through it, quit pussy footing around and move on to a better life. Because really it isn't a whole lot of fun putting your whole life on hold while your WAW is out sleeping with someone else. I know this has to be done on your time line and you will get there when you do. Sometimes you just have to go through that heck, all the way through to get the lesson learned.
Back to you guys.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory