Thanks for the helpful advice. To give you a bit more insight into my marriage I was not always the best H and left my wife to do most of the work around the house and look after our 4 children. Somehow I feel that I'm responsible for the mess that we are in and I pushed her away by not helping out and doing my part to build a good M. I still feel that I owe her because she has been such a great wife in the past and if I turn around and wear the pants and push back this will push her farther away. Not sure how to go about doing this.
_________________________ Me 52 W49 M 30 T 32 4 kids over 20 EA suspected Bd Sept 14 ILYBINILWY Still living under the same roof seperate beds