Originally Posted By: sandi2
Just be careful about the girl from the cooking class. An ego shot? Sure it is, and you probably need it. However, you are also vulnerable for a rebound relationship.


Thank you Sandi. I agree with you, I did NOT give her my # when she asked for it. I am NOT ready to date and made that clear. I know she is interested, but it's not where I am at.

Originally Posted By: sandi2

What you are feeling today about having doubts you want the M to be saved, will probably change in a few days. In other words, others have experienced the same feelings.


Exactly. I think I just want closure one way or the other. I feel like for the last several months, I am standing at the fork in the road. One path is "divorce" the other is "no divorce" and I am waiting for that decision to be made. I just want to be happy.


Me: 38
W: 32
S10 D6
T: 10 (02/2004)
M: 7 (12/2007)
Separation 02/2015
OM confirmed 01/2015,
D mentioned 12/2014
D finalized 9/2016