We have argued a ton over the last few weeks, almost daily, I'm having trouble using the tools and looking the other direction and acting like the deception doesn't bother me. Her entire life revolves around "half truths" is what her therapist is calling her deception. She appears to be trying but seems half hearted at best and is refusing to go to our current counseler but will go to a new one. I'm thinking we need a female counselor so that she might open up about intimacy as all the counsellors are trying to get us to be intimate to help with reconnecting. She has refused to be intimate and is says things like " if I never had sex again it would be just fine with me ". I explained that I cannot live in a sexless marriage and it's not fair to ask me to do that. I asked how long she expects me to wait for her to figure this out and she set a two week time frame. I really have no idea what to do other than practice the tools and work on GAL. What happens at the end of two weeks when she says the same thing? .... Ideas or thoughts?
M44 H37 D13 S8 S6 Married 14 W is stay at home mom ILYBNIWY:9-28-14 A started 04/2014 OM confirm 11/24/2014 Admit PA 01/05/2015 09/11/2015 W file for D and wants the moon
