Just be careful about the girl from the cooking class. An ego shot? Sure it is, and you probably need it. However, you are also vulnerable for a rebound relationship.
What you are feeling today about having doubts you want the M to be saved, will probably change in a few days. In other words, others have experienced the same feelings.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
