My story

[EyeTie]

I have been doing fine lately. Just getting our house ready to put on the market.

Spent the weekend, packing, cleaning and painting. I saw W earlier at church, we sat together but didn't talk. After church she came by to drop off a few things and we ended up going to lunch as a family (with S & D), then went carpet shopping. We had fun, although later in the day she kept texting someone, whatever. When we got closer to my house she did start a fight with me about her Mother calling her last week. I had to get rid of one of our dogs (which was her Mothers) and called to let her know. She lives in Texas and we always got along great. I guess after I talked to her on Friday she called my W, what was said is beyond me, but obviously it did NOT leave my wife happy. Which is what caused the fight after our day.

She then said that I always hated her family (not true) and that she doesn't want me talking to her Mom all the time (I have talked to her once since W moved out). We were able to calm down and ended up texting one another afterwards.

The majority of her texts were "temp checking" about things. I kept my cool though and said "I do not want our old marriage." "I am not making changes in my life, hoping that we get back together." etc. She hasn't written back yet, but I guess we will see what happens.