What I took from Bea's post? Let him pursue his life in the way he chooses. What happens happens. I can't see how it's a good thing either, but I don't see through his eyes and I don't have to live that life. I have joy to seek...
Oh, and AJ & bea.... duh... my brain... I almost for got this great part! ^^^^^
Yes, AJ- Love bea's post. And I also love... "I have joy to seek" That should be top priority here at db! (or better yet... at MLC survival)