Hi Matt. I totally understand. There was a time where I felt that things continued to go wrong. All at once. Like, as soon as I felt I was about to make head-way, something else would come up. Oh man, it stinks. I am still overwhelmed by some thing, but... getting better a little at a time. Still setbacks, but... something's gotta give, right??!!
I am glad your dad is doing better. That must be a relief. I am sure it is difficult being away, too. I'm sorry.
Your d's response to this is very similar to what my kids feel. But, they don't have to do the suitcase thing. Luckily, they have only one home. It is unfortunate bc they don't have the r w a father figure like that anymore. But, at least they don't have to move around. I also get your d's response to the cutting. I hope things are getting better for her in that respect. And also, my s18 told me last year that he was scared he would turn out like his dad and "dad's dad" (they don't call him grandpa or anything- just dad's dad. They really are concerned by this. I guess to see someone whom they love and respect go totally haywire! It like they really can't understand what happened either. So sad.
As far was work, Matt... try not to let your boss get to ya. It sounds like no matter what you do, he is going to find something to be upset about. You aren't going to win. But, that doesn't mean you can't be successful. Don't waste any energy on it. Let it go in one ear and out the other. Focus on what you need to take care of. If you have confidence in your abilities, then do it. Take care of business. Some people are just like that and there is nothing you can do. Kill him with kindness and keep it moving. Stay outta his way- under the radar- as much as you can- and do what ya gotta do.
I know there is a lot of stuff that is out of your control here, Matt. It makes it difficult to establish yourself like that sometimes. Try not to focus on that which you can't control. Keep moving in the right direction. Eventually, it will get some traction and you will gain momentum. You have been doing well and progressing. Even if it doesn't seem like it. Movement is good!
