I had to see W this morning. I had to bring D14 over to get clothes and go over some financial stuff.
She then started talking about the divorce and how we need to communicate through the process and do whats best for us and not let the attorneys control our case. She said the most important thing is that we remain friends through this for the sake of D14. She then told me again she is not happy now but keeps plugging away each day. She said she can't go back to way things were. I told her I agree with that. Things will never go back to the way they were, but that does not mean we can't work through it.
So that was my morning. When I got home she texted me that she was glad that we had that talk. But we have not talked since. I am glad I have D14 with me today so I can keep busy and not dwell on not talking. I know I am crazy but I don't believe the things that come out of her mouth. Her eyes tell me differently. Her eyes say that there is still something left. Now D14 told me I had her on her toes last week until I told her how I felt on Thursday night.
Me: 36 W: 36 D: 14 T: 18 (05/1997) M: 16 (05/1999) BD: 7/23/15 Separation 01/2015 D mentioned and started 02/2015 D filed 3/2015 OM confirmed 3/30/15