Ok, too much for me to read now but you are doing A LOT of mindreading.....
Your wife FIRED you as her husband. If you were fired from a job would you be so concerned about your previous bosses actions/intentions?
Stop trying to analyze her every word. Just to give you an example my H referred to me as his wife in public and touched my back/leg when I was in pain. (He was living with OW and their relationship was out in the open so calling me his wife while true was odd). He had NO intentions behind these actions. It wasn't even a feather on the scale of marriage/divorce........ just saying the sweetest actions and "signs" can mean nothing. That is why sandi has those rules. Not only don't believe when they say they don't love you but don't believe the other stuff either.
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction
