Fat finger syndrome

Some threads are more general they are informational and discursive of ideas and strategies, idea to think about, some of the ideas will apply to you a lot, some a little and others not at all. Your own thread is the place to discuss and apply items specific to your sitch. For example items that look at piecing or divorce may not apply to you at this time. Items relating to abuse are interesting to V but items on WW not at all because V is not a WW. Etc

Joe, perhaps more theoretical knowledge will help you. Consider a period of reading and consolidation of your thinking. Particularly on boundaries, detachment and validation. The general threads will help you with techniques and some will be easier to use to start with. if you were learning a new language say Cantonese, then it is unlikely that you would go and discuss advanced economic theory with a Cantonese professor after two weeks! You would have lessons, go and order a loaf of bread, chat to a friend and gradually build your skill. It is the same with these skills. It takes time to build the skills and practice and after these are skills for life, for the rest of your life.

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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW