Wife ready to walk away

[2chiquitos]

I read Cadet encouraged you to focus on yourself and I want to re-iterate that. Your posts are all about how she is doing but I see very little about you as to what you are doing to work on yourself. Ex. she this, she that.

You rely on her behavior and then try to analyze it. You try to see if it is because of something you did or didnt do. STOP! thats my 2X4.

Journal about YOUR thoughts not YOUR thoughts on what she is or isnt doing. What do these feelings remind you of. Go back to your childhood. Reflect on your own experiences.